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I'd rather talk about the TV show... |
People usually say that I'm a bad friend. And I can understand why they say that.
For me, a friend is someone that you can share time, things, thoughts or feels. But other than that, nothing else more important.
The friends that I had achieved over the years had always been related to school, job or university. And I had enjoyed their friendship, we had go to cinemas, we eat together, go to parties, lend some money. But when the school was over, I didn't have the need to see them anymore, at least not on a regular basis. Maybe once upon a year
For example, my best friend in high school moved to America (I think) and he made a goodbye party and invited me and other guys from the class. I thanked the offer and give him my best wishes, but I said that I was very busy that day to go to the party. I was not.
Maybe I sound a little coldhearted, but that is the way that i treat friendship. If a friend is with me right now, I can be a very good friend, but if he goes away, don't expect me to follow him (because I don't know what to do with his friendship anymore).
I'm surprised that compared to most people, you don't idealize friendship :o
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